Subject: Re: Goodbye Abus0r Meanie. Sun 16 Oct 2016, 11:08 am
Meanie don't be emotional ok? Clear your head and come back after good sleep. You never were like this, you never went too far, this is far too radical change in you. You were and are nice fit to SoL, so I don't totally understand this abrupt change in you. Dunno what happened between you and samfp but you damn well know he is troll and you are better than succumbing to his ways.
So change your mind and stay here, ok please?
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Subject: Re: Goodbye Abus0r Meanie. Sun 16 Oct 2016, 12:12 pm
As the king of reacting emotionally and later regretting things... I'd ask you to take a little time to think about it before you make this decision final because I know we all would be very sad if you decide to leave. Either way though please stick around the server
Subject: Re: Goodbye Abus0r Meanie. Sun 16 Oct 2016, 1:23 pm
It's sad to see you leave, but it's up to you in the end. You don't really have to say why you leave if you don't feel like. I mean, sometimes there are no reasons, just feelings. What it nagging me a little is what you said about never following the rules of the clan or said that you even abused several times. It is a good thing if you are being honest with us, but it hurts a little or at least to me that you feel that way towards the rules that represent us in some way. Maybe I thought that you share the same values that comes from our rules and it wasn't like that, and maybe we didn't offer you what you were really looking for in this clan. Anyway, putting that aside, I wish you the best for whatever you want to do. Take care and see you around if you feel like!
P.D: I moved the topic to "The clan" in case Meanie wants to reply, as she has already been removed from the member's list and group and she can't comment on "Members chat".
Subject: Re: Goodbye Abus0r Meanie. Mon 17 Oct 2016, 8:15 am
When I first saw this topic, I admittedly thought it was actually a joke topic. Moreover I had actually hoped for that. A minor scuffle occurred on the server, but large enough, that, apparently caused you to question your ability to administrate and make decisions. While I cannot claim to have been there and make my own observations, I will say to give yourself time to reflect on this. Give yourself distance. Making a decision such as this so close to an event is ripe with emotion that may otherwise have been decided differently. You have self-doubt due to this event I think, not that I am right, but I think. I can relate in my own experiences in which I may have misued my own administrative abilities while trying to solve a problem, especially early on.
So where do you go from here? That is and has always been your decision, its what took you to SoL in the first place. Do not let bad experiences ruin an entire habit for you, events should not mean the death of something, unless it is quite literally the death of something. Think, how many positive things have you had here in comparison to the bad? What are the pros and cons? Yes, you may have broken protocol, but you are a new admin, are you not? Such event is a learning experience, given time, you will learn how to use your administrative ability to blow off steam from passion-filled interactions. However, I see you feel that leaving SoL is the the best choice of action for yourself, and one I will not judge.
Good luck in your decision, through which ever way you go my friend.
Subject: Re: Goodbye Abus0r Meanie. Tue 18 Oct 2016, 4:02 am
hey, we're all abusers I wish our master abuser luci was here to cheer you up meanie! Dont forget we all fancy you, meanie!
Ain't that the Truth LMAO!
Luv u 2 Laaaaaf :>
U don't have to leave just because our rules and protocol, we are pretty lax if you are a member. (unless you cheat of course lol) I enjoyed our trolly moments especially with messing around in the office tehe.